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Warning: Long Post. Boyfriend and I have had rough relationship. Wondering if this relationship is salvageable

2021.10.25 20:41 canigetayeeehaaawww Warning: Long Post. Boyfriend and I have had rough relationship. Wondering if this relationship is salvageable

My boyfriend (29M) and I (22F) have been officially dating since about March 2021 and have known each other since beginning of July 2020 via Tinder. Our relationship has been kinda rocky to say the least. I honestly wasn’t really looking for a relationship or anything but after our first night meeting (and hooking up) we both were really into each other and he wanted to see me again. We started seeing each other casually but after I met his sister that same month it felt like we were starting to be more exclusive especially by the end of the month.
I talked to him about this at the beginning of August 2020 asking what he was looking for and we both seemed to be on the same page and started seeing each other exclusively but without labels (not officially boyfriend/girlfriend). When I went to visit family in a city about 100 miles away (I was away at college so I was visiting for the week) at the end of August, he ghosted me for about 4 days. He texted me explaining that he was a drug addict (which i had no idea of at the time) and was on a binge those days i was gone. Fast forward a few days later once i was back, to him calling me and telling me that he slept with another woman (i’m pretty sure the only reason he told me was because if he didn’t, his housemates would’ve because we were friends by that point) and I was pretty hurt not going to lie but understood. We had talked about a future together at the beginning of august (before this happened) and during that conversation I gave him an out, explaining if he didn’t want to be exclusive we didn’t have to be but i didn’t want to pursue anything further with him if that was the case (had bad experiences in the past with ex). So I was pretty blindsided by this revelation. After he called me and told me, he came over so we could talk and when he did, I explained that I didn’t want to really pursue him anymore since it seemed like he wanted something more casual which isn’t what I was looking for anymore. He was crying and told me he loved me (for the first time) and I ended up forgiving him because he attributed the sleeping with the woman to his bipolar (it was later debunked that he didn’t have bipolar and was just on drugs) and I felt bad thinking it was part of a manic episode.
He didn’t sleep with anyone else after this (hopefully) but he still messaged other girls up until January 2021 (I only knew because I looked through his phone which I know I shouldn’t have done but I needed to know if he was being truthful to me) and would go on drunken text rants to me calling me a bitch and evil because I stood up for myself. I told him that I wasn’t okay with that behavior and tried to leave but he promised he wouldn’t do it again. This behavior subsided (or so I thought) and we started dating in the beginning of March 2021. We started dating at this time and I had to ask him to date me. At the end of March he got a DUI and that’s when the drinking seriously stopped because he had to enroll in a rehab program and therapy.
I moved back home (June 2021) after graduating this year which has made dating hard but I stayed at his house for the month of July to cat sit for his housemates.
He’s gotten so much better since then and I can see the person I fell in love with initially, until I noticed his instagram following. I’ve never really been a jealous person but after all that emotional turmoil from the past 6 months I was definitely more jealous than i’d been in my previous relationships. While cat sitting, I saw that he followed a bunch of girls after we started dating and even recently. I didn’t know what to think of it so I asked him if he had been messaging those girls at all or liking/commenting on any of their pics and he replied “no.” Well I didn’t really believe him so I unfortunately went through his phone and saw he was messaging, liking and commenting on posts from girls he followed AND didn’t even follow, which indicated to me that he knew it was wrong of him. I confronted him about it and he said he was sorry but at this point (July 2021) I didn’t really believe him. I had met his mom and dad (April 2021) so at this point I was in deep, they wanted us to visit them down in LA for a weekend and we agreed to do it once he was done with his community service from the DUI (this part becomes relevant later).
I think part of the reason it’s so hard to leave is because on the outside he is nice to me and I know he is trying to be sober, but he still does things behind my back that make me wonder how truthful he really is (plus my codependency tendencies). I asked him not to follow random girls on instagram and not to follow them back just because they follow him (he doesn’t have any pictures of me on his instagram so it makes sense that he seems to be single to the general public). After I asked him to stop, a week later, THIS BEHAVIOR CONTINUED BEHIND MY BACK! I was beyond upset and started packing up anything I had at his house while he was sleeping and was just going to ghost him at that point, but he woke up and found me grabbing my things and tried to get me to stay. I ended up staying probably because of my low self esteem/codependency and how much I love him and I thought he was serious now about not following random girls anymore.
Eventually I move back home 100 miles away officially and we only see each other once in a while (he did relapse during this time and didn’t tell me but I found out because I saw his location was at a bar until 2am, I confronted him and he was sorry).
Fast forward again to this month (oct 2021) and his family asking us to come down to LA, he told them we were going to come down soon to see them. He told me that we would visit them in November 2021 on a weekend he had off from community service. He then tells me a week later that he scheduled a greyhound to see them but didn’t ask me to go. I was (and still am) pretty upset by this since he told me we would plan something but he said we would go together in December 2021 to see them when he had more time. The icing on the cake is when I went to check his instagram following the other day, I saw he followed another fitness girl which just tipped me over the edge. I love him and he says he loves me but I can’t shake the feeling that he is still lying to me and using me (I just graduated with a chem degree so I have more work opportunities than him, even though he has his masters). I’m just in a situation where I don’t know what to do, he’s very loving and caring but he gets in these moods when I’m away and acts pretty mean to me. I’m still not really over what happened with him and that one girl last year but his dishonesty with me has made it near impossible to get over!
I’m definitely overthinking him going home to see his parents without me but I feel like he’s keeping something from me, he was so adamant that we go see his family before and now he just planned a weekend trip home without me and just casually brought it up over a facetime call. Is this guy worth staying with? He says that he sees himself marrying me one day but can’t even bother to post me on his instagram or say he is taken. He doesn’t post much but he uses instagram all the time. Sorry for the long rant, just want some advice on this situation. Am I being unreasonable with him or making unreasonable requests/boundaries? I know it’s difficult to be in a relationship when you’re trying to be sober so I’m also thinking about that when it comes to him. He says he just follows people spontaneously without thinking but it makes me worried he will cheat on me later in life. Is there anything we can do to salvage this relationship?
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2021.10.25 20:41 WannabeWeeb- Parents or reddit, your child takes a 15-25 minute shower. What’s your thoughts/reaction to this?

Made this post bc I like taking long showers and my dad has made a comment about me just masturbating and will say it only takes him 5mins to shower but really I just like hot showers bc it’s so peaceful for me and the water feels good🤷‍♂️.
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2021.10.25 20:41 Lower_Nature_7789 Would this be a good PR stunt to protect myself?

Before we start I must address that this is not a troll or a joke or trying to rile people up, this is the only place I can ask stuff like this anonymously.
Some backstory, I'm a 35 year old children's entertainer and Youtuber. I'm quite popular on the platform, I have nearly a million subscribers and over a billion total views across multiple channels and you can find some of my productions on Hulu or various kids channels on Roku (And no even with all of this I still don't make much money). Anyway the point is I'm at a pretty good point in my life right now however my past is coming back to haunt me. See when I was 20-25 I was a hardcore gamer and there are a LOT of clips out there circulating recently of me playing games like GMOD and saying really hardcore slurs over and over again. There's a lot of evidence of me saying the hard R when I was well over 21 and people are starting to get mad about it. Obviously I don't agree with that behavior now because it's been 10-15 years and my prefrontal cortex has developed all the way.
However people are really starting to pick up on it, I mean it won't hurt me ANY if I don't address it at all because it's only a few thousand people complaining about it. But I feel like this will get picked up by some wannabe Nancy Grace on Youtube who wants to hurt me so I've come up with a plan of action. I've arranged a chat group of over 100 b lack individuals and the plan is to make an apology video by letting over 100 of these men roast me one by one on video. What do you think?
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2021.10.25 20:41 Megatard7 Wardens new rework :)

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2021.10.25 20:41 morty_sucks Can I run the game at 4k at a solid 60 fps

Intel I9-9900 Gtx 1060 super 32 gb ram Or atleast 1440p with the hd mod
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2021.10.25 20:41 triqqytripps 21M Looking for Discord Friends!

Over the last year I’ve had some friends that weren’t really friends, I’m sure you know the feeling, it’s not fun. I’m trying to find more people to talk to and get to know! I play video games on PC and I am down for movie nights as well as just sitting in voice calls and talking about anything. Music is a big part of my life so if you’re down, we can send songs back and forth. The game I play the most of right now is Dead by Daylight, but I also play a bunch of other games and I’m willing to try out some games I haven’t played before! Can’t wait to hear from you guys :)
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2021.10.25 20:41 Sneakgeek7 Selling on computershare

I don’t plan on selling some shares until after peak but I heard that to sell securities over $1m you would have to send a letter which I understand. So if I sell 2 shares at the peak of millions then I send a letter. Thing is they only do market sell. And I remember people saying it’s always better to do limit sells because possibility of some glitch like if I sold at $50m that I only get like $100k in a brokerage. So would it be different if a market sell happens on computershare since it’s a registered share?
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2021.10.25 20:41 FreddieMyBoy K Michelle

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2021.10.25 20:41 Dear-Grand-1744 Wii table tennis replay, sounds like an Aphex Twin track!

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2021.10.25 20:41 lysergicfuneral Spotted on Marketplace: "Inspired by Sauber C8" - $69k

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2021.10.25 20:41 dapperlemon Can the Pixel 6 Pro take a good photo of the Moon?

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2021.10.25 20:41 BeyondAffectionate93 Should I transfer to another University?

Hey guys here is some background info. I am a 19 year old engineering student who moved from California to a pretty shitty Midwestern state school. Here is a lay down of some problems that have come up in my life and I want to hear what you guys think about it and if I should transfer tf out of here or not.
1.) First semester went well, made many friends joined a fraternity and got a girlfriend. Was very in happy in life during this time and got amazing grades.
2.) second semester rolls around and the friend group I was in got toxic. They started ridiculing me for not spending enough time with them and my girlfriend broke up with me. She then told me she was pregnant (lying) trying to make me freak out as a means to make me feel like shit. She also stole my clothes and gave them to goodwill. Winter came around as well and with restrictions, most of my day was spent sitting in my tiny dorm room feeling depressed. I then got arrested one night for being in a car with a driver i did not know was drunk (I was drunk to) and I received a minor in possession charge.
3.) First semester of sophomore year rolls around and I am living in a house with 4 other guys that I at the time really liked. The first night I got back to school and moved in, I got into a bar and got belligerently drunk and tried to walk home. Got arrested again and received another minor in possession and a fake I.D. charge. Found out 2 of my room mates have horrific back stories that I was unaware about when I first met them. Some serious sexual assault allegations that have been following them. One of my friends told me one of the room mates assaulted another girl recently and I have to live in the same house as him. Physical fights have also broken out between my house due to my room mates irrational behaviors.
4.) My landlord is psychotic and irrational. He violates the lease by coming into our house at random and finding things to yell at us for. And when I say yell, this guy literally will be screaming and swearing about this and that, when there is nothing that is going on warranting a reaction like that. He has been bothering us for months now with this kind of unprofessional behavior.
5.) I have been sexually assaulted twice now this semester, once by a man at a concert. It was pretty bad and left me feeling shitty and gross for a few weeks afterward. And again by a girl walked into my room at 5 am unannounced. I wont go into much detail on that but it was a pretty shitty interaction.
At this point with all these shitty things going on in my life out here, I am seriously considering packing my stuff up and leaving to another school. I feel like it is impossible to fix my negative mentality out here with all the things that have happened out here. Back home I was an achiever who was excelling in fitness, work, and had positive healthy friendships. If you guys could give me some advice or your opinions on the situation I am in I would be very grateful for it. Thank you guys.
TLDR: Crazy people around me, psychotic landlord, criminal record. Do I start over at another school?
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2021.10.25 20:41 NolanTacoKing this guy is a twitter legend

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2021.10.25 20:41 maryjaney420 Legs for days

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2021.10.25 20:41 blow_chunks Suggestions on fixing sagging interior fabric

Anyone got an easy suggestion to fix the sagging ceiling fabric?
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2021.10.25 20:41 DonNinety Revisiting a chiptune album I did a few years back. Thought I'd share this track! Hope ya dig!

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2021.10.25 20:41 sockfullofcumandshit Independent Doc, 1970, pertaining to Vietnam's "Silent Majority"

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2021.10.25 20:41 First-Future-8858 🐱 HEROCAT launched yesterday | 8% Automated DOGE rewards | Website – Stickerpack – Promo videos and active dev team! 🐱

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2021.10.25 20:41 ExtinctGinger07 Answer in comments lol

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2021.10.25 20:41 Neko-Reina-23 Dose anyone know a good place to get patterns?

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2021.10.25 20:41 IanRode undertale if it was an online game part 2 [[pipis]] boogaloo

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2021.10.25 20:41 Scentsibly [WTS] GUERLAIN Aqua Allegoria Ginger Piccante, 2.5 Oz/75 mL, 95% Full, Comes With Box/Full Presentation! US Only. (Bottle)

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GUERLAIN Aqua Allegoria Ginger Piccante: 2.5 Oz/75 mL, 95% Full. PayPal preferred. $40 FF or $41.95 GS shipped.

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2021.10.25 20:41 myFIRSTcarISaSKYLINE Thinking of selling the hood and add the original one. Will it overheat?

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